Friday, July 31, 2009
Another Night to Remeber and a Day for Packing
Tish B'Av night we went to our shul for Eicha reading. Our Rabbi is away as his father is very ill. He gave a shiur via Skype. Eicha was nice considering we wish we didn't have to read it. Our original plan was to finally go to the Southern Wall Excavations during Tish B'Av afternoon. We decided there was something meaningful to be their Tish B'Av night. After Shul we got in the car and headed to Jerusalem.
Traffic around the old city was extremly busy. There were traffic cops everywhere watching traffic. It would have been nice if they did some directing as well. There is a great indoor parking lot at Mamilla. Due to getting stuck in the wrong lane, I approached the street needing to make a right turn instead of coming from the other side and making a left. The police had blocked off the right turn so I had to loop around from the other side. The intersection where the road was closed was a nightmare. A bunch of cars made illegal U turns. Eventually the third one caught the attention of police and got yelled at. It was fortunate for me as it blocked traffic allowing me to get out of the lane I was stuck in. We finally made it to the left hand turn lane into the parking lot. The police blocked me from making the turn a few times in order to allow busses through. After waiting patiently a car pulled around me to attempt to cut me off to make the turn. When I honked at him, it got the police attention and they finally allowed me to go through.
As we came down the stairs to Kotel, there was a group of 3 girls with the slogan "Donate to have the Beit HaMikdash built now!" The girls loved Channah as we stopped to explain that it was tzedakah if she wanted to give. They eventually gave her a sticker, which she took and wandered off. We gave for her and headed on our way. All 3 of them had a big wave for her when we passed them again when we were leaving.
The Kotel was very different from other times I have been there. Tearing Kriyah at the Kotel on Tish B'Av brings a whole new meaning to the day. Lots of people spend the night and had matresses and pillows laid out all over the place. As it is customary to sit on the floor many people use the Kotel as something to lean on. Even the security gaurds were sitting on low chairs. I took a walk from end to end along the wall and back and could not find a single spot. Eventually I just said a prayer standing back and then leaned over someone to touch the wall.
Tish B'Av morning was like the good old days at the Village Shul. A bunch of Kiynot were selected and there was a lenghty explanation before each one by different members of the shul. There were interesting insights plus they sang Kinot 31 (Beseti Mitzraim, Beseti Yerushalyim) to the tune I love. Shul ended just before noon. It was then time to go home for 6 straight hours of packing. I hate packing on Tish B'Av and I don't plan on doing it again next year.
Mincha, shiur Maariv brought an easy fast to an end. We didn't do kiddush levanah in order to do it Motzei Shabbat. The move made it a little hard to stay focused on the day. Channah was not as heart broken this time. She told me she didn't think Mashiach was coming so fast. When I asked her why, she told me "Some kids in my Ketanah just don't get it." Hopefully next year we will celebrate Tish B'Av with a BBQ at the Bet Hamikdash with no packing.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
AT&T SocialNet is Launched
Today AT&T officially launched AT&T Social Net This is the main program I have been working on. It combines Facebook, Twitter, RSS and MySpace into one application on your phone. The program is completly free, although it is not recommended to be used without an unlimited data plan.
It is really cool, to see a project that I have put so much hard work into finally in the market place. I just keep thinking how cool it is that a problem I noticed and was fixed could effect the user experience of millions of people.
Monday, July 27, 2009
New apartment- unpainted (master bedroom)
New apartment- unpainted (hallway and non-master rooms)
bathroom and laundry room. Yes it is being cleaned and painted. Yes that curtain is going to go.
studio. Will be the same colour as the salon
mirpeset (off the living room)- note the succah support structure :)
built in shelves in the laundry room
New apartment- unpainted (public spaces)
reverse view- the wall with the door will be the dark brown one.
kitchen side one. Fridge goes next to the oven on the right. Note the built in spice shelves, cabinets to the ceiling, and toaster garage above the oven. Yes I know the sinks are tiny. Can't win them all.
kitchen side 2 and front door. Table will hold microwave so Channah can reach. I have pot
drawers!
hallway to bedrooms
Gratuitous cuteness
A fantastic resource for those thinking of visiting our lovely country
http://www.govisitisrael.com/
Just for reference, this is what it has on Beit Shemesh- ask anyone local- takes more time to read this than to do anytihng around here so far as we knew!
City: Beit Shemesh | |
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Tel Yarmut - read here
Tel Safit / Gath Archaeological Park- read here
Derech Burma West - read here
Nes Harim - read here
Seriously, go check it out.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
A sort of but not exactly electrifying day...
Yes I know. I have wierd dreams. Moving on. Suffice it to say that when the alarm clock rand this morning I was seriously not interested in listening to it. Somehow I managed to drag myself out of bed, get dressed and get Channah down to her carpool for camp. I came back upstairs, turned on the fan as today was set to be another scortcher, and colapsed into my bed for what I hoped would be a really long sleep. The plan was to do a bunch of work and packing when I woke up.
About 45 minutes later I woke up broiling. The fans were off. Ok, no problem, I went to check the fuse box. Hmmm, everything was fine there. Yeah, long story short, the chashmal (electric) company had cut our power! Seems they had gotten the Sunday of our move slightly confused and shut it off at 9:30 this morning. Ok, they will turn it back on somewhere between 2 and 6 pm. did I mention there is a service charge for this?
So it was hot. I was exhausted and very, very cranky. None of my power tools will work (you try setting the stone on the *inside* of a ring with no power tools and no air conditioning! I lasted about 15 seconds before giving up). Packing with schvitz running down your back is incredibly unplesant. I shut the tris in our room, soaked my hair, and grabbed a book (our room seems to stay the coolest most of the time).
Channah got home from camp and let me tell you with no fan and no a/c she was no happier than I was. In fact, since she refused to wet her hair she was worse!
So I was trying to figure out what to do with a grouchy, sticky, hot five year old. I decided to let her go to the makolet to get a popsickle. I could not go anywhere as I was waiting for chashmal people to show up. So for the first time I sent her alone. I send her to the makolet just down the block that has no streets to cross. I gave her 20 shekel, told her ot get me a cold diet coke and pick a treat for herself.
She was SUPER excited! She went running out the door with her little money pouch. She came back about 10 seconds later. Wait, Ima- where is it again? What am I getting?
A glass a milk, a crust a bread and a stick ug buttah
Wait, scratch that :)
Ok so we went over the whole thing again. Seh was pretty sure she had it now. I reminded her to come right home after, an so she took her little pink polka dot pouch and off she went.
About 10 minutes later I hear the door slam.
"Hey Chan. How was it?" (expecting a bouncy and excited 5 year old).
"Terrible. They had no candy."
Wait, what? They have a whole wall of candy. And a huge thing of ice cream and popsicles.
"They only had donuts and I did not know if I was allowed a donut and I do not know how to say donut".
Oy. She had gone to the felafel place. I knew that becuase they had an add campaign running about selling American style donuts.
Ok, so we worked out that she did not see the makolet (next door to the felafel place and lots of stuff out in front of it) and so she went to the felafel place that had soda, got the diet coke, but then was upset there was no treat for her- jsut felafel and donuts! So I asked her if, now that she knew where she was supposed to go she wanted to try again. As both places had air conditioning and we still did not she was game.
But she wanted to know if she could have the donut. I told her sure. The next question "How do I say donut?". She was a little surprised to learn that "donut" would work just fine. she left and came back about 10 minutes later happy as a clam (are clams really that happy?) with my change and her donut.
We did osme sorting of old shoes and clothes and then the chashmal finally came back on so I got a bunch of work done before my piano student showed up. I have another ring seminar student hopefully starting tomorrow so I had some stuff to get ready for that as well. We actualy went out to dinner (mmmm aroma salads and ice chocolate milk!) and raced home so I could finish the work stuff before clients came to pick up their items.
So my day really only started at 4 o clock. I managed to get everything done that I wanted to that I had budgeted a whole day for. I did NOT get any normal packing done- but lets face it. Have I ever moved with enough notice for it to not always be last minute? I just did not want this move to think it was special...
In other news, Congrats Gasners on getting your stuff. does that mean we can come for shabbat now? Actually, b'h we are good for I think the next 2 weeks around the move- I love our friends and neighbours around here!
Thursday, July 23, 2009
New stuff in the studio
I only just started running the program and so far have had some success. The students seem to really enjoy it, and because they are so in to it, I really enjoy teaching the class.
Hopefully it will turn into a nice side stream, and I hope to add some different jewelery making classes in the near future.
For pictures and a little of what people are saying about the new program please visit
http://www.phony-art.com/weddingringseminar.htm
I am a good idiot :)
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
My kid is awesome!
By the way. Do you know when you Google "Israeli spider" you get some really nasty anti-Israel propaganda? Who knew?
Monday, July 20, 2009
He is the egg man.
anyone have any good recipies for a lot of eggs? I think we are at 90 now.
Random this and that.
In other news we are all well on the road to being healthy again! My voice is still gone, and we are all still coughing but we are back to our normal routines and scheduals. Thank Goodness!
Finally, my webhost switch went over with lots and lots of hitches, but everything finally seems to be working properly.
Now if only we would actually get started on packing and the fact we are moving in 2 weeks we might be in business...
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Yes, No, Yes
No we are not in any sort of danger at all.
Yes we are affected in small ways like being unwilling to go to the post office and more importantly Channah can not go to camp as she would need to drive through the rock throwing jackasses to get there.
Monday, July 13, 2009
Random Messages
2) Mazel Tov Karen and Morrie! Wishing you long happy and healthy lives together and thanks for giving us a great excuse to start searching for a good travel agent (yes we know it might be a ways off but it never hurts to start looking! Let us know when you have a date so we can be really organized!)
3) Tzeitzchem leShalom and Bruchin Habaim to the newist family members on the aliya bandwagon! To the Gasners- coming to the end of our first year, I can tell you it is a huge and very worthwhile challaenge and we are thrilled to have you joining us on this side of the ocean. MAy the rest of our family be so smart!
4) To all the new readers we have picked up i nthe last few weeks- Hi!
Sickos
Swimming Swimming
She is taking lessons in a backyard pool about a 15 minute walk away and I am really thrilled with the class and the teacher. 6 girls, roughly the same age, the teacher, and an assistant.
Anyhow, so we decided to take her swimming on Friday sio she could practice. There is a pool about a 15-20 minute drive from here. It is mixed swimming, but I wore a t shirt and a skirt made of swimsuit material. It actually worked out really well.
They had a full sized pool and and a little kiddie pool that we let her go into once she finished "practicing" with Jason and I. All in all it was a great day- except for the fact Jason got a nasty sunburn (which is funny as he was the only one of us wearing any sunscreen).
Since I can't post a pic in the Aunty Deborah Bathing suit, I will post one in the aunty Deborah terry dress that makes awesome throw on top of a bathing suit for the bus ride home after swimming lessons or ice cream after a family day at the pool dress.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Bet Shemesh's Newest Gemach
Gemachim are great because they allow people to share stuff they don't necessarily have a current use for. It also gives people an opportunity to stretch their finances by not needing to buy every single thing they need. This can be especially helpful for controlling the costs of weddings, bar mitzvahs and baby stuff related costs. It is the true meaning of Jews looking out for one another put into action.
The local phone directory "Shemeshphone" has more than 100 categories listed under Gemachim. The listings themselves take up 14 pages. Items covered include basics; clothing, food, loans, cell phones, chairs, baby stuff, chick peas, laundry detergent etc... They also include things that are a little more unusual; snake catching, roof rack, lost objects, emergency auto repair, table cloths, wigs, vacum cleaners, clocks, ladders, DVD players etc.... My favourite is still the השבת אבידה - ילדים Lost Children Gemach. We have 5 of them for all of Bet Shemesh.
I always thought the list was very thorough and complete. Then I saw this sign in our building.
Yes, the sign is for an ice cream gemach. Not only do I live in a city where ice cream is considered an essential service but it is being run out of the building we are moving to next month. I love this country!!!
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Absorbing Israeli Culture
I noticed today that I have a tendency to put the noun before the adjective when writing sentences in English.
I was looking at some flyers for summer camps. One advertised that it was run by 13 year olds. Starting age for running a camp is usually 11. What caught me off gaurd was they each had 4 (yes four) years of experience.
As we have a spare guest room we had guests staying with us for a really fancy Auf Ruf one building down the hill. We were told they were a family of 4 until they showed up with 3 kids. Turned out she was within a week of her due date. When they did not return by 11:30pm we concluded they were not coming back. Then I went outside and heard that they were singing Shiur HaMalot. 20 minutes later I went outside and heard them finishing the end of benching. They returned 12:15 am.
I still have moments where I can't believe I actually live here and how much I love it.
Today I am an adult.
I am ridiculously super excited.
It is also the first time ever we did not just buy the absolute cheapest bare minimum we could get away with and actually got a decent machine that we wanted (within reason obviously). I feel like I am growing up too fast...
In other news, for sale. One washinng machine. contemporaries with my mom.
The Sound of Silence
We had not been planning on it, but hey, now that you have mentioned it, that sounds like fun! So we decided to be spontaneous (a day in advance) and booked a sitter. Jason decided he could skip the shul meeting (when he looked at it logically happy wife way more useful than happy shul in the long run).
Anyhow, so we grabbed pizza for dinner (quick, easy and leftovers for lunches) fed Channah before the sitter got here and were ready to leave right when we wanted to be. We are enjoying this whole having use of a car thing. We grabbed the ipod and some cruddy speakers and were off.
We got to within 5km of where we wanted to be before we hit traffic, then got off the highway to head the wrong direction. concert started at 8- we got to the marina around 5 after and spent 15 minute or more lookign for parking. Got to the concert around 8:30.
First thing to know is that the marina is gorgeous! It is not just a bazillion boats like most of the ones I have seen. This has a boarwalk, a big mall, lots of cafes and restaraunts (many kosher, none mehadrin that we saw- bit there is a mehadrin ice cream option). Nice arcade :)
The concert stage was set up at the bottom end of the marina. There is a huge open concrete area that had loads and loads of keter* chairs. Every seat, I would guess about 400 (but we all know I am terrible at this game) was taken. People were on the ground, on the docks, even sitting on the fences. Staff were bringing out more and more chairs. Forget any sort of fire safety or anything like that. Moving any direction was by special request only.
Jason and I found seats on the dock that were not bad until someoen stood right in front of us. By the time the show was partway over though and some people had left so we were able to just move to normal seats about 2/3 of the way back.
The concert itself was wonderful. It was a Simon & Garfunkel tribute band and they were really good. I guess the part thatamused me most was that it had never occoured to me the patter, and even some parts of the songs, was in Hebrew. It was actually really nice ot be comfortable enough in both languages to understand jokes that went back and forth and what not. On the other hand, it is wierd to hear some of my favourite lines of music sounding remarkably less familiar.
We wandered around the marina for a bit after. Checked out thebooths of "Made in Israel" crafts set up along the water's edge. Nope. Did not buy anything. It was really nice. Oh, bought some marshmellow bananas in honour of making abba want to come back to visit... (hamayvin yavin).
*Keter is sort of like rubbermaid but way, way better. They make pretty much everything under the sun. We have lots of odds and ends that are keter. I doubt there is a home in the country with no keter stuff.
Too many yellow flags
Back to square one.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Old is old
+ not much trouble with rust in this country
+ not likely to be stolen
+ decent sized trunk
+ in our budget
+ has passed emissions testing for the year
+ huge trunk. will hold hockey equipment
- odometers go up that high?
- need to go into Jerusalem to see the actual one we are looking at and not a "similar one on the lot"
- guarantee? What's that?
- not sure why it is going as cheaply as it is considering other similar ones with much higher mileage are more
- smallish back seat- okay with one extra person or a couple of kids in a carpool. Two adults plus Channah would be very snuggly
Further random thoughts
For a long time Jason and I were much further right leaning than we are now. We realized after a time that the only thing "wearing the uniform" meant was that we were trying to force fit ourselves into a slot that was not the right shape.
I do not believe in segregation a group diferentials because of outer casings. After a time I refused to dress as if I did.
I one heard, from a female Reform rabbi, there when it all boilds down to it, there are only 2 types of Jews. Those who take their Judaism seriously and attempt to do what they believe is right in the eyes of Hashem, and those who don't.
I think it can be extended to encompass all of humanity but changing it to "there are only 2 types of people in this world. Those who look to make it a better place, and those who don't.
Those who believe that Hashem/life is restrictive and is looking to make life hard and unenjoyable for everyone- that the only goal is to get through with "top marks" for yourself and screw everyone else. Those are the ones who I believe have no true understanding of what Judaism is. I firmly believe that Hashem wants us all to be individuals within the great framework he has given us. I also think that framework does include things that each of us are "over" on in some way. I have gay friends who would give you the shirt off their backs if you were in need. I know a woman who would never be caught outside the shower without her sheitle. Her kids are dressed in perfect matching outfits everywhere she goes. Her husbands hat is always perfectly brushed. And I also know she has absolutely zero decency in how she treats her hired help. I see people who are "completely shomer torah and mitzvot" who cheat the government out of every penny they can. It is not for me or anyone else in this world to judge who is a "bigger sinner".
People can accomplish the most amazing things when they build bridges rather than dig trenches.
Is moshiach here yet? Of course not.
Not because every day we are inching closer to a war with Iran. I can deal with that. I made my peace about moving to a country constantly on the brink of war before getting on the airplane- anyone who tells you they did not contemplate the issue in one way or another while weighing the aliya options is lying. That sort of fear comes part and parcel with Israel citizenship.
No, what scared the living daylights out of me is, shall we say, certain "darker" members of our society- and in no way am I referring to skin colour.
This morning I got up, got dressed, remembered I had to go to the post office, then got dressed again. The local post office is "there". There were no one will look me in the eye and God only knows what will happen if I enter dressed in sandals.
I live right in the heart of one of the craziest areas of the country where Hareidi and Dati Leumi and Chiloni and all sorts of other fairly meaningless classifications of people clash regularly. I live in an area known to be so insane that Chareidim from other areas think that ours are loony. Granted that, for the most part, the "crazies" are few and far between and live "down there"- but they are still around and that 1 or 2% are vocal enough to being a bad rep for the rest of the community.
This morning I came home from the post office to find my mail box stuffed with tznius patrol sort of stuff. A full colour, gloosy pamphlet that included diagrams to show me exactly what was, and what was not acceptable. A recent change at my health care facility- public owned and open to everyone who pays membership, is now informing people who need appointments that they must come in "appropriate attire". Thanks maccabi. If I have a kitchen accident I will be sure to take the time to put on socks before I rush over.
But it is not just here that things are getting out of hand. These few darker elements of an overal good society are becomeing more extreme and more violent on a quickly increasing scale. I do not understand how anyone, anywhere, can justify the riots taking place in Yerushalayim Ir Hakodesh.
Is being mechalel shabbat by driving against the rules set forth by the Torah and masorah? Yes. Should I do my best to make sure that if there is soemthing I can do to lesson the levels of those being mechalel shabbat in this world? Maybe. Should I do it with violense so I can make sure that my position is clear and that there is no way on God's Earth that such a thing can be allowed to continue? No way in Hell!
I am not sure where this is going. I am just frusterated with the sickening perversions of a faith I hold true and the way it is being portrayed to people- and not only to outsiders! I am just as easily influenced to be "anti" as any non believer out there.
The whole thing saddens and disgusts me.
Sunday, July 5, 2009
4th time's the charm
Thursday, July 2, 2009
A car :) (temporarily)
I cried because she had no shoes
Channah ran back to where her shoes were- only there were not shoes there. She came back to tell us her shoes were gone. Lor was going over that way anyway so she sort of rolled her eyes and said she was going to go look. she came back. "Rach? The shoes really are not there."
So of course I did the eye roll thing and went over. Surprise surprise no shoes.
So I looked all over the place. Under jackets, on climbing areas. No shoes.
It seems someone had walked off with Channah's sandals! 200 shekel down the drain. Do you know how hard it is to find shoes for a kid with a long but AAA width foot?
So I went to ask the guy at the door if there was anywhere else it could be (lost and found? a different shoe cubbie) "Not my responsability he sais. When I try to ask if I can leave contact information and a description in case it turns up he just keeps repeating "not our responsability". Gee thanks buddy.
Eventually I found a staff member willing to humour me and pretend to take the information and my card with my number on it.
I suspect they will never get a 2nd thought from anyone but me.
So we drove back to Beit Shemesh with her barefoot. Once she understood that I was not angry at her (she had put them where she was supposed to!) she took the whole tihng like a trooper. We took her to two different shoe stores locally to try to find shoes, but not a single pair would fit. I have been told about one more local place to try so we will likely go Friday- if that does not work out I am going ot take her back to Jerusalem to where we got the first pair.
Grr...
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Avatiach avatiach a a-vatiach..
Nothing quite says summer like watermelon does it? Seriously, around here you know summer is coming because every makolet is full of green orbs and little old ladies asking you to lift them into their carts. It is all good though since you can then ask them how the heck to know if it is a good one.
I have had lots of little old bubbies give me lots of answers. It should smell sweet. If should have a little give to the shell (who knew watermelons had a shell? Are we cross breeding them with eggs now?) They should have no smell becuase if they do it means they are over ripe. The crust (yes, she said crust) should be hard and firm.
Yeah. Helpful huh?
So I googled for help. What I have learned.
- Look at the bottom of the melon for a yellow or cream patch that was directly on the soil while it was growing. If it is green or white it was nto sitting long enough and is likely not yet ripe.
- The outside should be firm and DULL green. If it is light looking or bright it is not a good sign.
- If you tap it it should sound like your hand is sort of bouncing off it- not hollow and not like hitting concrete.
- It should be heavy realtive to its size.
- Doo not buy watermelon that was refridgerated. It goes bad much quicker.
- Watermelon does not ripen once it has been picked so do not get a pre-ripe one and hope it will mature in your kitchen.